Effective communication

[felicia]

FIrst of all we have to show them give them more of our time and to have patience to listen them and to find the right solution to any problem that is good also for the child and for the parent in cause , through comunication we can show them that we are their friends and they have our full support anytime they want it .

[alinu]

What about Minnie?? Does she love Mickey too??? I have forgotten it , because it is such a long time ago that I have red Mickey Mouse... )

I think children need presents from there parents - although if there are not many because of lack of money.
Remeber its your birthday (or christmas) and there is no present - a very sad idea...
I think Alinu said "a lot of presents instead of communication is bad or to give only presents is not enough for a child".
Another problem could be: to give too much presents to a child and to think that I can show how much I love it....

I didnt know you can read Mickey Mouse , just joking probably there are coloring books with mickey mouse.Anywho returning to the subject at hand yes a present can mean a lot to a child if it s with love for the child but the other thing is that you should know your child interests and to know the interests of your child you have to talk to him to find what he likes and what would want.

[adrian]

Effective communication also includes education , because as a parent when your child grows up you have to present your child all the ways life provides after high school just an example.Present him with some options like if he wants to work , study further and what does he want to study.Because me teenagers , freshmen in college may end up regreting what they chose their profession I mean , it's always best to direct your child the best way in his life still regarding his feelings and wishes.

[victor]

I know what you mean later in life if a child grows to regret his life or is stuck in a bad place it's more likely they will blame the parents , because they didn t listen or didn t even ask.Remember even if a child says no he actually means yes but is to embarassed to ask.

[alinu]

There is a question going among children do younger parents relate better to children than older parents.I think it s all about the parents and there are a lot of factor to be taken in consideration.

[maya]

My parents are 30 years older than me. They don't always understand me and sometimes it's hard for us to connect, but they are wise and not careless like some parents can be. They have helped build me a good future and i wouldn't trade them for anything. I love my parents, and I'm happy with them. Old parents aren't better than young, and young aren't better than old. It depends on who they are, and what they are like.

[felicia]

Older parents are wiser , younger parents are more open minded ?!

[alexander]

why can parents of different ages have both?

[victor]

One question leads to another and another and the answer is simple , people are diverse and they way they raise their child depends on them even if they get advices or not.

[alinu]

My parents are 30 years older than me. They don't always understand me and sometimes it's hard for us to connect, but they are wise and not careless like some parents can be. They have helped build me a good future and i wouldn't trade them for anything. I love my parents, and I'm happy with them. Old parents aren't better than young, and young aren't better than old. It depends on who they are, and what they are like.

I think almost any child would say pretty much what you said about their parents at a certain age when they think "clearly".As teeangers though it's like in our nature to rebel against everything.